How Important Are Table Manners When Abroad?
In ten days I'll be embarking on a trip to Japan. Though I swear I was Japanese in a past life, I have never actually been there. I cannot wait to eat sushi for breakfast, lunch, and dinner! (Yes, I know Japanese cuisine consists of much more than sushi, but I do love it!) If, for some strange reason, I overdose on raw fish, I will resort to eating teriyaki, yakitori and noodles, which is hardly the worst thing in the world. As my father would say, "In heaven, they only serve Japanese food."
I am also eager to try new types of fish, and learn the proper eating etiquette of the Japanese. I have been reading up on it a bit; the last thing I want is to come off as ignorant and disrespectful (Lord knows I have done that before. Read below for an embarrassing story.) For example t is considered bad manners to waste soy sauce, so one should really refrain from over serving him or her self when eating sushi. White rice should not be directly seasoned with soy sauce, and when eating it one should hold the rice bowl in one hand, and chopsticks in another.
Clearly there is a lot to learn, and I will learn it!!! I hate making the same mistake twice which brings me to my embarrassing story. A few years ago I was in Greece with a great friend of mine, we had just savored an incredible meal of grilled octopus, melt-in-your-mouth mild feta and this olive oil drenched white fish salad. It was a gorgeous night, all the locals were out and this place was packed. At the end of the meal we were gifted a small glass of Ouzo (Anise flavored liqueur) and this unappetizing looking dessert chocolate dessert. Now, my dear friend was polite enough to indulge in both. I on the other hand refused. As much as I love Kookaburra Black Australian licorice, I can't say my love translates into all things licorice. So we paid the bill and as we stood up the once noisy veranda went silent. Like radio silent. Awwwwkward. Clearly when given something you should accept it and consume it, I thought to myself. So the two of us nonchalantly walked out of the place, knowing that we could never return again, which was tragic considering it was by far one of the most memorable meals I've had.
Can you relate? Do you have a similar story to share?